I received an email from someone yesterday that had me thinking. I know them personally but I won’t say who wrote it. In fact, I’d like to keep most of this post as private (for everyone) as possible. They posed a question that I thought might be interesting to post here. They asked me how many times per month I think most couples have sex. I thought about this for a while and then answered them. Granted, you can’t put a number on everyone. I realize this. But it did make me think.
So, I figured I’d put that question up here as well. Now, I don’t want anyone to use his or her real names. (Please, especially since I know some of you personally and I wouldn’t feel right about asking you this on line, in person, maybe. But not on line.) I also know that some of you might think that we’ll try and hunt you down by way of an IP address. All I can say to that concern is that you have my word that I will not do this. I will keep this entirely anonymous. I promise. If you haven’t ever believed anything I’ve ever said before, believe this. In another life, I would have loved to have been some type of sex therapist (especially for women). I will stand by my word.
So, how often do you have sex? How often do you think other couples have sex?
(If anyone actually answers this question, I, too, will chime in under a fake name. Ultimately, I am hoping that this post opens up a constructive dialogue.)